A good partner should know how to make his girlfriend feel beautiful, happy, adored, and essential. But to be honest, sometimes this is easier said than done.
This article features a list of questions to ask your girlfriend that allows you to interact and connect with her, especially on a deeper level. It is difficult to come up with a list of these questions because there are no off-the-shelf answers, as every woman has her outlook on life and living.
But if you like to get some good questions, here is a compilation of questions that will entertain your girl and give her a chance to answer some serious ones.
Good Questions to ask your Girlfriend about Life
1.) Do you think you’re hard on yourself?
2.) Where are you dying to travel to?
3.) What’s the silliest thing you’ve ever been upset about?
4.) What was the most important appointment or deadline you missed?
5.) What did you believe for way too long as a child?
6.) What is one memory you wish you could revisit?
7.) Do you want to spend the rest of your life with me?
8.) How did you manage your emotions and feelings growing up?
9.) What thoughts keep you awake at night?
10.) Have you ever lost someone close to you?
11.) Do you want a future with me?
12.) What’s a bad habit you’ve been able to overcome?
13.) If you had the opportunity to learn exactly what every person in your life thinks about you, would you take it?
14.) What’s one thing your mom or dad doesn’t understand about you?
15.) Would you ever change career paths, or do you see yourself having your current job until retirement?
16.) What are some things you’ve seen that you wish you could forget?
Important Questions to ask your Girlfriend
17.) Do you plan in advance or save things for the last minute?
18.) What is your favorite memory of me so far?
19.) What is one question you would ask about your future?
20.) Is there anything you’re stressed out about right now?
21.) What have your past relationships taught you?
22.) Has anyone ever broken your trust beyond repair?
23.) Do any types of conversations make you uncomfortable?
24.) What are your top priorities?
25.) What is the most expensive thing you have ever bought for yourself?
26.) How good are you at keeping secrets?
27.) Do you like surprises?
28.) How would you cheer for me?
29.) What’s the most important thing you learned from your parents?
30.) What is your definition of success?
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Romantic Questions to ask your Girlfriend
31.) Do you believe in soulmates?
32.) Who was your first crush?
33.) Do you feel that we make each other better people?
34.) If we could recreate one day from our relationship, what day would you choose?
35.) Can I call you when I feel like hearing your voice?
36.) What fictional characters have you had a crush on over the years?
37.) Where have you always wanted to go with me?
38.) What’s your favorite date that we’ve been on?
39.) What is your idea of the perfect proposal?
40.) What do you feel when we hold each other’s hands?
41.) Do you believe in second chances?
42.) Do we spend enough time together?
43.) What quickly came to your mind when you remembered the day we first met?
44.) What is the most romantic proposal story you have ever heard?
Fun Questions to ask your Sweetheart
45.) Where do you like to go shopping?
46.) What songs would make up the soundtrack of your life?
47.) If you could be the main character of any movie, what movie would it be?
48.) Be honest — what is the last thing you searched on your phone?
49.) Which house would you belong to in Hogwarts?
50.) If you had to spend $10,000 today, how would you spend it?
51.) How long do you think you can look me in the eyes without laughing?
52.) What do people think makes them look cool but has the opposite effect?
53.) If you could choose any superpower in the world, what would you choose?
54.) If you could revive fashion trends from one particular decade, which would it be?
55.) If you could rummage through one celeb’s closet and take anything, whose would it be?
56.) If you could be a part of a family on any TV show, which family would you choose?
57.) What foreign languages would you want to learn and why?
58.) If money was no object, what would you buy?
59.) What’s your survival plan during a zombie apocalypse?
60.) What’s your favorite movie with Anne Hathaway in it?
Hard Questions for your Honey
61.) What movie would you like to see turned into a musical?
62.) What’s the proudest you’ve ever been of yourself?
63.) If you could learn the date and time of your death, would you?
64.) What’s acceptable in small numbers but terrifying in large numbers?
65.) What current trend makes no sense to you?
66.) What’s legal now but probably won’t be in 30 years?
67.) Which piece of makeup gives you the most confidence?
68.) How do I enrich your life?
69.) Have you ever loved someone who didn’t love you back?
70.) What’s the most thoughtful gift you have ever received?
71.) What do you know that you aren’t supposed to know?
72.) What still makes you cringe when you reflect on it?
73.) Do you hope to grow up to become more like your mother or your father?
74.) If someone paid you a million dollars to wear the same outfit every day for the rest of your life, would you do it?
Random Questions to ask your Babe
75.) Do you journal?
76.) What beauty or fashion moment do you regret most?
77.) You can only use one social media app for the rest of your life — which one do you choose?
78.) If you could have a celeb as your BFF, who would it be?
79.) Have you ever broken any bones?
80.) Do you like my friends?
81.) Would you get into a relationship with yourself?
82.) What’s the weirdest Wikipedia rabbit hole you’ve stumbled down?
83.) Have you ever shoplifted? If yes, what did you take?
84.) Have you ever been on a blind date?
85.) What odd smell do you enjoy?
86.) What’s the funniest thing you’ve seen a kid do?
87.) If we started a band together, what would you want us to be called?
88.) What would the adult version of an ice cream truck sell, and what song would it play?
89.) What’s the weirdest text or email you’ve gotten?
90.) Have you ever been to a palm reader?
91.) Who’s your least favorite celebrity?
92.) How would you spend your ideal birthday?
93.) If you could delete all social media apps and go off the grid, would you?
94.) What’s the best advice you ever received?
95.) What is the most significant sacrifice you’ve ever made for a relationship?
96.) Do you keep mementos from past relationships?
97.) If you were a man for a day, what would be the first thing you do?
98.) When was the last time you cried inside a bathroom stall?
99.) What do you think people automatically assume about you when they look at you?
100.) When was the last time you stayed up through the entire night? Why?
101.) What does love mean to you?
102.) Are there things we do together that you would rather do alone?
103.) Have you ever felt like giving up in the past?
104.) Do you feel like you act differently when you’re by yourself versus when you’re with a group of people?
105.) What would it be if you could describe our relationship in one word?
106.) What would you tell the graduates if you had to give a commencement speech at a college?
Conversation Starters for your Gal
107.) Do you prefer sweats or dressing up?
108.) What’s the cheesiest compliment that you have ever received?
109.) What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
110.) What is one childhood superstition or fear you’ve never told anyone about?
111.) What’s the best lesson you’ve learned from a work of fiction?
112.) What’s incredibly cheap and you would pay way more for?
113.) When was the last time you got to experience nature?
114.) Do you prefer crosswords or word searches?
115.) What’s your grossest bug story?
116.) What makes you smile instantly?
117.) When was the last time you complimented a stranger?
118.) How much honesty do you think is needed in a relationship?
119.) Who’s your best friend, and what do you love about him or her?
120.) Who was the first-ever fictional character you fell in love with?
121.) What is your favorite ice cream topping?
122.) What was the last thing that made you cry?
123.) What bad habit do you wish I would quit?
124.) What makes you feel super loved?
125.) Would you hold my hand in public?
126.) Are your needs being met?
127.) What would you enjoy doing more of together?
128.) What food do you crave most often?
129.) Would you rather hug for 5 seconds or kiss for 1 second?
130.) Which pet name do you find the cutest for us?
131.) Would you be swept off your feet by a romantic gesture?
132.) What class would you love to take together?
133.) What’s your all-time favorite dessert?
134.) Do I support you enough?
135.) What song would you love to hear on your wedding day?
Interesting Questions to ask your Girlfriend
136.) What would be the first thing you’d do if you won the lottery? What item would you buy first?
137.) What would it be if you could only eat one thing for the rest of your life?
138.) What fashion trend makes you cringe or laugh every time you see it?
139.) What’s the funniest TV show you’ve ever seen?
140.) Are you more of a free spirit, or do you appreciate a strict schedule?
141.) When was the most inappropriate time you busted out in laughter?
142.) What’s your skincare routine?
143.) Do you like roller coasters?
144.) When was the last time you got genuinely frightened?
145.) What do you think is my best trait?
146.) Which piece of clothing do you always get a lot of comments on?
147.) If you were going to live in a bleak, average house and only one room in the house could be incredible, modern, and beautiful – which room should it be?
148.) How would you describe your style?
149.) What’s your favorite thing to do alone?
Questions to ask your Girlfriend to Get to Know Her Better
150.) What hobby would you like to try out?
151.) What is your comfort movie? TV show?
152.) Do you have a hidden talent?
153.) Do you believe in aliens?
154.) What is something you want to know about me?
155.) What was your first concert?
156.) What is your favorite candle scent to fill your home with?
157.) What’s the most beautiful beach you’ve been to?
158.) How much time do you spend getting ready in the morning?
159.) What’s your go-to casino game?
160.) Do you have trouble accepting compliments?
161.) How seriously do you take horoscopes?
162.) What was your favorite toy you always slept with when you were a little girl?
163.) Where is the best place you’ve been for taking walks?
164.) What’s a weird nickname that people call you?
165.) If you could cook any dish perfectly, what would you choose?
166.) Have you ever thought about what your children’s names would be?
167.) What’s your idea of a perfect date?
168.) What’s one thing I do that makes you laugh every time?
169.) What do you imagine our life together will look like in the future?
170.) What’s the funniest pick-up line you’ve heard?
171.) What is one thing you think makes our relationship unique from everyone else’s?
172.) When are we an excellent team as a couple?
173.) What is something you could never forgive in a relationship?
174.) Do we resolve our issues respectfully?
175.) At what point did you decide that you wanted us to be a couple?
176.) What is your favorite part of our relationship?
177.) If our relationship ended, what is the one thing about it you would miss the most?
178.) How has our connection changed since we first met? Has it become stronger or weaker?
Would You Rather Questions to ask your Girlfriend
179.) Would you rather see five years into the future or 20 years into the future?
180.) Would you rather drink coffee or tea for the rest of your life?
181.) Would you rather have time stop every time you go to sleep, so you don’t waste any time or only need to sleep for 2 hours and feel fully rested?
182.) Would you rather be a human able to breathe underwater or be a real-life mermaid?
183.) Would you rather never have to rewash dishes or make every edible fruit on earth seedless?
184.) Would you rather learn 100 things instantly or be able to learn everything 100x faster?
185.) Would you rather always have to listen to music in your head or never listen to music again?
186.) Would you rather live one life that lasts a thousand years or ten lives that last a hundred years each?
187.) Would you rather earn a small sum of money doing a job you love or a large sum of money doing a job you hate?
188.) Would you rather lose your sense of taste or touch?
189.) Would you rather know all the world’s secrets or stay ignorant forever?
This or That Questions to ask your Girlfriend
190.) Pepperoni pizza or cheese pizza?
191.) Pancakes or waffles?
192.) The toilet paper goes over or under?
193.) Broccoli or green beans?
194.) Pancakes or waffles?
195.) Shopping in-store or online?
196.) Coffee or tea?
197.) Morning or night?
198.) Instagram or Facebook?
199.) High heels or flats?
200.) New phone or a new laptop?
201.) Baseball or volleyball?
Remember to converse with your girlfriend if you find this collection of questions interesting.
Remember, once you ask the questions, don’t forget to listen to her answers. It’s not just about getting the information you need but about sharing your willingness to communicate with her and showing that you are interested in learning more about her.
The time you invest in this will be well worth it. You’ll better understand who she is and make her feel cherished.
Athena writes about pop culture, literature, and history.
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